What is the most frustrating thing about dating in Indian culture?

Ravi Sharma
Ravi Sharma, Dating in India
Dating in India - Problems
1. Justification to family, colleagues and friends
In case, if someone will see you, he will make sure that he will show his presence and make your date vulnerable. It doesn’t stop here; he will spread this message to everyone who knows you. Later, you need to explain everything to your parents, friends or colleagues or whomsoever it may concern. Ted is changing immensely in metros but in small cities, this is something which is still common.
2. Someone will see you!
If you are a small town guy, there is always a scope that someone will see you in mid of your date. Dating in India for people from small town is like committing a crime. No matter how liberal you are, there is always a fear in your mind that someone known to you, will see you.
3. Where to go?
Selection of place is a real difficult task in India. In metros you can go anywhere, as you have many decent spots like restaurants, parks, clubs and movie halls but in small cities you do not have much to explore.
4. People staring at you
You never know what your date would be wearing. In case, if she is wearing something ultra-modern, it will raise your eyebrows in beginning itself. Even if you are fine with her attire (you should be), you cannot stop by passers to look at your date like a pervert.
5. Impacting your monthly budget at large
For middle class guys or those who are unemployed or still a student, a date means your entire budget for the month will be traumatized for sure. You prefer going to a decent place not a road side dhaba, so in that case your pocket will be bleached for sure.
6. What to wear?
Most of the times, you are not even sure about what you will be wearing. In case you are planning to buy a new pair of shoes and you are not sure that what would be the best choice for your cloths and vice-versa. Sometimes you try to be smart in your date but looks a like a fool.
7. What to eat and how to pay?
Typically guys are eager to pay the bill, irrespective of the money they are carrying. In the era of demonetization, you never know if the card swipe machine will not work at the time of payment and here you go.
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